On the 12th June 2018 it was the 10th anniversary of my move to Cornwall. The life I envisaged here and the one I now have are extremely different.
Living near the sea, the elements of rain, wind and storms intensify. Cornwall may not be as cold as other parts of the UK (although the last winter was a harsh one) and frosts happen less here. The cost of living is rising everywhere, but in tourist areas, prices rise during the holiday season and even though tourists pay these prices for the short time they are here, residents pay higher prices throughout the holiday season. Work opportunities increase during the summer, but lessen in the winter. The cold weather also means an increase in household bills too.
Taking a vacation in Cornwall is easier than surviving here. During a vacation you can take time out to visit beaches and places of interest, but when one is trying to survive and so busy with work, pleasure visits to beaches or sites rarely occur often even though you live in close proximity to them.
On a positive note I have enjoyed my work as a Wise Woman throughout the last 9 years. I have learnt so much from Cassandra Latham Jones and it has been a fascinating and testing journey. Working with the land and sea here and its powerful unpredictable energies has been a challenge as one is severely tested and obstacles are put in one’s path. It takes strength of character and determination to overcome these and continue………the spirits constantly test and seem to say……..how much do you want this???
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My experience and training in ceremonial magic while in Kent has been useful when conducting Rites of Passage. Cassandra is happy to leave the – as she calls it – ‘arm waving’ to me when setting up the space for ceremonies.
The consultations we do together work well, the moment just before a reading when Cassandra holds a client’s hands to connect with their energies, I tune in to any spirit presences that may be around or wishing to connect with them. While Cassandra shuffles the Tarot cards I provide the client with a description of the spirit presence around them and also any messages they with to pass on. Cassandra then lays out the Tarot spread and there have been many instances where the same messages have appeared within the cards giving double confirmation for the client. I have also witnessed many readings by Cassandra and am so familiar with the cards that I now own the same Tarot pack and am able to provide readings from them.
Property cleansing needs a huge amount of work, particularly if they have been inhabited by a variety of residents over time,(more-so with period properties) The energies from traumatic events are contained within the foundations of these buildings which can have a profound effect on any future residents. In hotels and public houses/inns the energies can intensify and can affect the smooth running of businesses. We have had many successful outcomes from this work.
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Curse breakings are another area of intense work. Many clients consult us concerning this and Cassandra has a unique powerful method for dealing with these energies that works well.
Wart charming was a service that at first I was sceptical of as it was difficult to understand how this could possibly work. Even now I could not explain exactly how it works but I have witnessed the successes with clients.
I still provide Holistic Services and have taught Reiki courses here which benefit clients greatly, particularly because Reiki is more about the spiritual and emotional development of the person rather than a complementary therapy. I have assisted a wide range of clients from the terminally ill to owners who now are able to calm their stressed pets.
My counselling services have also come to the fore too as often clients are affected by childhood abuse and do not realize how much it alters their everyday life as an adult even though these events are in their past.
Walks with Wise Women is an enjoyable aspect of our work as it enables us to visit and enjoy the sites with our clients. I have learnt a lot concerning the folklore associated with them by listening to Cassandra relate them on each visit. We also discover more about our clients as we have plenty of time to talk with them as we walk to and from the sites.
Our Working on the Wild Side workshops have been successful in the last few years. I suggested them to Cassandra who was not keen at first, but we had many enquirers asking if we provided them, so agreed to give it a try. The workshops have gone from strength to strength with a new subject introduced each year. We have met some fabulous people and have had profound experiences at each one. The preparation and the workshops themselves are hard work but energizing and satisfying on a deeper level.
I have learnt many things since being here and the biggest lesson is that life is indeed unpredictable. One can plan the future to a certain extent but circumstances that create a sudden change can have an incredible impact on one’s life with positive or negative results.
I have also learnt that being successful with work and in a community brings with it rivalries, competitiveness and jealousies from some who will then project the dissatisfaction with themselves and their lives onto another. When a person experiences this level of pettiness it is vital to remember these people, by their treatment of you are validating that you are exceptionally good at what you do. If you were no good in life, negative people would not bother with you.
When a person moves into a new community, they are on foreign territory and therefore vulnerable to predators and bullies. Genuine good-hearted people in the community will do what they can to assist especially if they were once in the same position.
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Cassandra Latham Jones falls into this category and has helped me in so many ways.
I have also integrated myself socially by attending festivals and utilising my talents as a musician and dancer I have met some kind, thoughtful and talented people.
The residents of St Buryan village have been particularly welcoming and consider me part of their community.
My time here has been creative too as Cassandra and I along with my son Rhys formed our Guise team Boekka with Penkevyll the Lands End ‘Oss. Our team has performed for 8 years and we also have Morvargh my new Sea ‘Oss as a recent addition. To top it all, little did I realize that my idea of Cassandra, myself and Penkevyll the ‘Oss meeting Phil, Vivien and their Mari Lwyd at the Museum of Witchcraft and Magic on Samhain in 2014, would develop into an event as fantastic as The All Hallows Gathering!
I have now been in Cornwall 10 years and I am no longer a ‘newbie’. The local and Pagan community has witnessed just how much I have been through and seen the obstacles placed in my path. Some could not have withstood or endured a fraction of what has been directed my way, but that is par for the course. The positives far outweigh the negatives and I am still here…….